Blame game

Blaming others for the choices that you make causes you to loose your power.  You are left being a victim.  As a victim you are unable to make choices of change and will stagnate, remaining in the same cycle, getting the same results that you have always gotten. When you take self responsibility for the choices you have made and stop blaming others you will realize your choices create your circumstances.  You gain power and control over your life and the choices you make to get the changes you desire.  TKC